Saturday, January 17, 2009

How To Potty Train Your Son

toddlers potty training

Want to know how to potty train a boy? It is not easy to toilet train any child, but many parents lament that it is much harder to train a boy than it is a girl. What is first and foremost to remember is that the best results are achieved if you are able to win the trust and confidence of your little boy. Training tips from other parents can help a great deal, yet it is important to understand that your son will be trained when he is ready and not before.

Although no one seems to understand why, it does take longer to potty train boys than it does for girls. The difference may be partially due to the fact that moms are usually the person responsible for potty training. Without a male role model to imitate in the bathroom, boys may take a little longer to get the idea. Boys have more steps in the learning process as well. They first learn to potty sitting down and then learn how to potty train standing up.

Make sure your little boy become comfortable with using a potty chair before you transition to the main toilet. Having their own potty seems to encourage quicker potty learning. Give him enough time to pace his learning and often times when he is finally allowed to use the main toilet, he will become interested in potty training again, as he will feel like he is a big kid.

Getting him accustomed to the main toilet means sitting down to urinate. Once he shows that he can control himself consistently, it is the right time to demonstrate how to urinate while standing up. This part of the toddlers potty training process is more easily demonstrated by his father or another male family person.

Once he has mastered urinating sitting down, he can move up to the standing position. Try to arrange for Dad or an older brother to help with this step. Allow him to watch the process and then let your son try it out for himself in his potty chair. Boys love a challenge, so if he seems disinterested, try floating a few Cheerios or other small targets that can be flushed in the toilet bowl. Until he refines his aim, expect to clean up a few training potty messes!

Though he may not get it right the first time out or even after several tries, always encourage your son during the potty training process. Part of getting it right is to try and fail until the concept is finally mastered. You can teach your son the right way to use the toilet with a little commitment and patience, though there may be a few difficulties to contend with along the way. Figuring out how to potty train a boy just takes a little extra time and hopefully these potty training tips with help.

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